GIRL ON GIRL
I am writing in response to your article on Femme-inism
(“Out There,” October 6, 2000). I am a woman in my 20s, so I suppose that this article is
intended to be representative of the generation of women that I belong to. Well, I hope
that most of us aren’t as arrogant and shallow as we seem from your point of view.
First of all, I’d like to remind you that feminism not only has to do with issues around
relationships and housecleaning preferences. It also has to do with issues around gender-based
violence, rape, economic inequality, the scapegoating of single mothers, women’s sexual,
reproductive, and psychological health, abortion rights, etc. Some of these issues have
touched my life directly, some I have mainly witnessed other women dealing with. All of them
are important to me, and they are important to many other women of our generation as well.
I think knitting is fine, and I also don’t mind being called lady, chick, girl, etc., when the
intentions are good and in the right context. Personally, I clean my dishes because they get
dirty, not because of some repressed wish to be more like June Cleaver, but it’s fine with me
if some women are more into this activity than I. Whatever. “Third wave” feminists have already
discussed the reclamation and recontextualizing of traditionally feminine activities and lifestyle
choices through and through; what you say here is nothing new or challenging, so get over yourself.
While I also have found myself disagreeing with the older generation of feminists over certain
issues, I think that its very important to pay homage to them for the sacrifices they’ve made and the fights they have fought for all of us women. Your admittance of feeling “on odd sense of power” at their expense makes you sound like a bratty daddy’s girl who doesn’t have much big to think about. Maybe its time for you to learn real power from within and grow up.
PICTURE THIS
I don’t suppose the editor, Sam Smith, wishes to try to corroborate Dan Kennedy’s
ridiculous claim in his recent article “The imagemakers” [October 20, 2000] that Columbia
University Professor Edward Said was photographed throwing a rock at Israeli police would he?
If there is such a photo I would like to see it.
Martin Shields
Scarborough
Editor’s note: The photograph ran in the July 24 issue of the New Republicand can
be found at several places on the Web, including the magazine’s site, www.tnr.com/072400/notebook.html.
COUNTER INTUITIVE
All of us at Coffee By Design appreciate the recognition as Best Coffeehouse as
well as the wonderful photo of our roastery in action [“The Best,” November 3, 2000].
It has truly been an amazing year for us receiving both local as well as national awards.
We would like the opportunity to address your comments about the long line situation at our
620 Congress Street coffeehouse. It’s hard to believe that a little over a year ago there
was concern about the future of our upper Congress Street store with a national competitor
moving into the neighborhood. Thanks to everyone associated with Coffee By Design’s hard work,
staff members’ dedication to excellent customer service and the offering of consistently
outstanding freshly roasted coffee, the coffeehouse is thriving. We are pleased to continue
our commitment to the Arts District neighborhood where we first opened our doors almost 7
years ago. We recently renewed the lease at our Upper Congress Street location and are in the
process of completing an electrical upgrade which will make the installation of faster coffee
brewers in addition to air conditioning for next summer possible! We are experimenting with an
expanded condiment station which offers twice the space. We often remark on what a difference
two extra feet of width in the shop would make. We have tried as we make improvements in the
shop to make sure that those customers in the wheelchairs have easy access into and out of our
shop.
As we grow our business, we hope that the lines of loyal customers will continue. Our goal
is to move the line quickly while serving our customers well. Outstanding customer service
does take time so please forgive us if the pleasantries get in the way. From what we hear,
the way in which we connect with people is one of the reasons that so many folks keep coming
back.
We are a work in progress. We strive to represent ourselves and the state of Maine well.
A most heartfelt thanks to all our customers, staff members, and vendors who have believed in
us from the start. We hope that as we grow we will continue to earn your business.
Mary Allen Lindemann and Alan Spear
Portland
Corrections: Carried away in the sheer joy of publishing last week’s “Best” issue, we
let a few things slip: the Web address for the Best Non-Commercial Web Site is mediaartist.com;
the correct phone number for belly dancing instructor Josie Conte is 828-6571; and the tireless
folks at Coffee By Design roast 1200 to 1500 pounds of coffee a week, not 12,000 to 15,000.
We apologize for the errors.
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